Does the phrase Stupid Malay Men ring a bell?The newly proposed amendments on the Islamic Family Law was largely disagreed and many were simply against it. Many in number and influence. Marina Mahathir was among them, followed by Nori and Hannis. These VVIP daughters may not have in depth knowledge on Islamic law and jurisprudence but they, at their best, speak out on this issue.
The amendment? To increase the amount of disputed properties of the husband after divorce.
Why? Because Islam says so... Think deeper people.. think in depth of knowledge.
Because men has more responsibility domestically. Because in Islam's jurisprudence, MEN has the responsibilty to take care of their ex-wife and children and by this, it clearly points out that MEN has to carry out their financial duties, divorce or not.
Stupid Malay Men.. From what I've seen and experienced, divorced men does not find this fact reality based. They just don't. Take my father for example: his divorced, remarried and has three kids. According to the Islamic Law, he has to pay for the house rent, our daily supply of food, the car, everything! because he is the leader of the family but up to this point, my mother is potraying superwoman, earning money for the family as well as carrying out her domestic responsibilities.
To put it simply, MOST divorced malay men ignored this fact and manipulated their status as free, single, and more-than happy-to-start-a-new-life men.
And for this fact alone, WOMEN must act diligently and complain. Complain to the Makhamah Shariah. Equal rights? Then have them used effectively. Speak out.
And as far as I am concern, the amendment has to wait until the phrase stupid malay men is once again fictitious.
17 comments:
Caiyok, afiq!!
what you said is true..
& since you've personal experience, i can see why you feel very much for this =)
stupid malay men surely won't apply to you, dear.
lucky e!
=)
- Puteri.
insyaallah I WONT be one of those men. It's disheartening isn't it? It's unfair. My cousin and some of my malay friends experienced the same thing. It's publisized: Bersamamu highlighted single mothers and hell, Datuk K has an ex-wife that works as a security guard.
well dear, thanks 4 d compliment.However how 2 get this message to those kind of man? d only way is u children got 2 educate ur dad. Let him know his responsibilities in true islamic way n of course talk how mummy strive her hardest providing the best she can by working 26 hours. Do mummy get flowers n candy this 14 may?
Of course, umi. *diligently hugs*
Aww, your Umi's here? That's a cute exchange =)
ps: Hi Auntie! ;D *waves*
- Puteri.
waa = was*
typing error
:D
and ur ummi waa here too~
thats sweet..
:D
waaa, toriq pun ada kat sini sama!! helo toriq! afiq, ni toriq! toriq, ni blof afiq! hahaha~~
hai puteri, hai umi! weeeee....
hello everybody, umi has always support me sons activities weird ke boring ke all d same . umi support. umi never regreted what happened but saddened umi coz they have 2 go hungry and schoolest at time 4 more 2 months as umi got no cassh. but not anymore umi work hard n bless me sons has grown handsomely n weirdly but umi love it. take care all n smile always.
weirdly....
Afiq, I love the way you write this entry. Yes I had realised long before that malay men (especially those city folks) tend to take their responsibility lightly. and this results in breaking up of the structural integrity of the family itself.
kids gone awry. relationships between kids and parents fall apart. thank god you have a mummy who is so caring and willing to support you in whatever you're doing afiq. thank God for that, you're very blessed.
i have a few friends who are divorced, and worse still, both of their parents are having their own sweet time finding new partners, which is shitty if i must say. they are neglected and turn out finding for outside love other than their parent's.
congratulations afiq. you're much, much more matured than i thought. behind that boyish face lies a very intellecual mind indeed.
ahaks, suprised too to see toriq here ~ all the way from scotland to see ur blog, afiq~ :)
Is mirul and irzan the same person? *confused* btw, thanks for the praise... hehehe.. eh, Im actually even MORE childish in person.
Hope you mother is doing great too
yes, real name amirul nazri!
so the same person la..nazri=irzan, we call that as "palindromes". in inverted commas because backward syllabus tak sama ngan forward, but still the same person..
hehe~
selamat berkenalan!
well said,looks like you are a jury as well as judge in your parents divorced. Think about it, you can accused but without the present of a defence, melayu boleh. congratulation, big WORDS from a 19 yrs old
im the judge, jury and victim
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