Enlightened Am I

Yesterday, a close friend of mine had taught me an important lesson in life.
He'd learned it the hard way for three bloody years and he had graciously passed on his knowledge to me, his... his revelation of things you might say.
If you're an avid reader of this blog, you might have noticed that there is a fued going on between my mom and me. Long story short, I refuse to talk to her and she's pushing me to reconnect with her with ridiculous means. And I do mean ridiculous. How ridiculous I won't specify.
My friend told me to ardently make merry with her and forget about the whole hoolabaloo, even though I literally cannot erase memories of being emotionally bullied by her. Why? Because Islam says so. Because Syurga terletak pada tapak kaki ibu.
"Baik baik je ngan dier... walaupun tak suka perangai dier ke hape ke, simpan je lah. Kalau dier kutuk-kutuk ke, buli-buli ke, sindir ke, telan jelah. Dier macam kita waktu kecik gak, suke berteriak, sikit-sikit tak puas hati tapi dier sabar je dulu. Sekarang giliran kita pulak nk bersabar dengan kerenah dier. Tapi tak payah la ikut cakap dier yang tak betul, yang betul tu je lah yang ikut. Memanglah doa ibu tu mujarab tapi kalau doa bende yang tak elok... senang camni je ek.. Tuhan tak bodo. Angguk-angguk jelah, buat dier happy. Dier tak perlu betul pun tapi kalau dier tak nak mengaku salah dier atau teruskan cara pemikiran dier, itu hal dier dengan tuhan, bukan dengan ko. Tanggungjawab ko ialah to make sure dier sentiasa happy walaupun dier salah. He's all knowing you know..."
"Chewah."
"Shadap. Orang cakap omputih sket nak kecoh, ko tu cakap omputih 24 jam aku tak kaco pun."

2 comments:

muhdfuad said...

Very true. Hope that this attitude won't be implied in any education sector by some conformists though.. the 'all knowing' part..

soleil_m said...

'shadap'?
Man, this word has made me laughing for d past few mins! *lol*

Got d similar prob 4 yrs ago.
I know my mom didn't take it seriously, 'budak tgh tensen nk spm biasala' but consequently I didn't perform well for my spm =(

Nice blog anyway Afiq!
Been reading yours for 2 months already ;)